Choosing a Director

In a direction relationship, it is important for there to be a mutual sense of the rightness of the relationship and a concern for open, honest, clear communication and a reverence for the unique way God is working in the individuals involved. Coupled with this is a mutual dependence upon the spirit at work in the relationship. Human specifics of age, sex, denomination and so forth, may assume more importance at one time in a person's life than at another. Basically, however, it is only necessary that the two persons experience the kind of "fitness" that allows them to be free for their common purpose together without undue attention to their relationship. It is helpful to set up five or six meetings and then evaluate how things are going. After that, periodic evaluations are encouraged so that what was begun as a right thing does not continue past its time.